I know there are some parents on this forum, so I thought I'd post a link to the Dad Club community on LiveJournal. It's basically somewhere where dads, and those about to become, or trying to become, dads can discuss problems, and support one another. You'll need a (free) LiveJournal account to join, and note that membership is only open to dads, and men about to become, or trying to become, dads.
It's at
http://community.livejournal.com/dad_club/