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Abbott Shaull 05-04-2010 05:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Rainbow Six (Post 21900)
Am I following this correctly? The US Army puts women in jail for getting pregnant?

That surely can't be right?? Or have I misunderstood?

Actually it not too far fetch in the Zero Tolerance social club of the US Army. With that aside, they tend frown upon you doing things that make you none deployable or cause you be expedited out of combat zone.

What is sad in the military all females are lump together in trying to get out of duty. Even if some of the may have sent over pregnant, without realizing or showing on tests at the time. There have been enough female troops and officers who have went out of their way to become pregnant so they could have free pass to stay home, while these women are in the minority. Yet, there enough to led some to paint with broad brush. As for the one who have gotten into the situation while base overseas, well it is one of the issues that units have to deal with.

Well as far as sex goes. Many of the women I had met in the military, they weren't actively looking to sleep with everyone. Yet, some of these issue that crop up are due to reflection of how they view society outside of the Military. It part of the culture why they have been kept out of so-called combat unit, and the t and a picture only keep the caveman mentality in some of those units.

I agree it lack of professionalism if all either a male or female troop was looking for was getting laid. On the other hand, I do understand that being human sometime you can't help/stop needs and urges with mix troops in such close quarters.

Rainbow Six 05-04-2010 06:24 AM

Thanks for the clarification guys...I can fully understand how a unit commander might be pissed off if someone either a) can't deploy or b) has to be sent home.

But to send someone to jail for getting pregnant...wow...

Mohoender 05-04-2010 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Rainbow Six (Post 21900)
Am I following this correctly? The US Army puts women in jail for getting pregnant?

That surely can't be right?? Or have I misunderstood?

No actually it didn't. They got pregnant while on duty. Of course, that is forbidden by the rule, for obvious reasons.

From what I understood they were thrown out and that's it (kind of in formal way). The commanding general, for a time, talk about court martialing them and putting them in jail. I agree that putting them in jail might be a little too much.

However, not pursuing them at all is as stupid. I'm more than supportive of women in armies but an army is in no way a democracy. I find perfectly understandable for women in the field to be forbidden of getting pregnant. Therefore, if they don't follow the rule they should be prosecuted as any soldiers. In that case along with the men as women hardly get pregnant by themselves. Then, I agree with rainbow, putting them in jail would certainly not be the best of choice. Nevertheless, I would find normal for the men to get some times in jail. Women in armies don't have to get a favored treatment.

However, another solution would be to allow them pregnancy at will. Still, that could quickly become a funny issue in a nuclear submarine, undersea for 6 month in a time like that of T2K.:D

One last think, I understand Rainbow but, in that case, these troopers are simply not doing their jobs. And I'm including the male with the female. Don't they ever here of condom, pills, abortion... Of course, they might be against these for religious reasons but, then, they belong to church and not to the army.

Here is the article

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34524436/

copeab 05-04-2010 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Mohoender (Post 21911)
Don't they ever here of condom

Yeah, it's what you use to keep water out of your rifle barrel.

Mohoender 05-04-2010 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by copeab (Post 21916)
Yeah, it's what you use to keep water out of your rifle barrel.

LOL :D. And what you use to split that same water on the passing general???;)

perardua 05-04-2010 09:33 AM

I would like to say that at no point did someone I know, whilst on stag, manage to engage in a sexual act with a US servicewoman over the barrel of a .50cal. Furthermore, this act did no take place literally opposite the medical centre which had condoms readily available, nor did the servicewoman concerned become pregnant. These are nothing but rumours.

Mohoender 05-04-2010 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 21918)
I would like to say that at no point did someone I know, whilst on stag, manage to engage in a sexual act with a US servicewoman over the barrel of a .50cal. Furthermore, this act did no take place literally opposite the medical centre which had condoms readily available, nor did the servicewoman concerned become pregnant. These are nothing but rumours.

It's nevertheless a warzone.

They are adults and should be accounted for their acts. The medical center has nothing to do with it. Of course, I said earlier that they are kindergarten kids and that point tend to confirm it. I'm not sure I would give a .50 cal to kindergarten kids.

If there are only rumors, this is the most important information (sorry from my part as it looked very serious as this article comes out of MSNBC). As a result, all of this discussion becomes purely theorical but interesting, nevertheless.

I would maintain that military regulations concerning men/women relations are obsolete when applied to troopers at home. After all, it is their problem.

On the other hand, they should be maintained, and strictly enforced, in what can be considered a combat zone :
- currently Afghanistan, Iraq, Middle East base, probably every home base involved in the supply chain.
- In any time, a sub should be considered a combat zone because of the very mission of these ships.

In my opinion, women under arms are no longer women but troopers and they should act as such no matter their gender (from what I read, even if rumors, women were not considered responsible; men were considered guilty as well). From my point of view, women and men can do whatever they want when it comes to sex, even during war times. However, if a woman gets pregnant (either because of her, him or both not taking proper preventing measures) during war time, I would consider that this is equal to abandoning its post.

Still theorically, I would consider the general first reaction to be slightly exagerated but the idea of a court martial would be a proper course of action. Theorically, if the upper chain of command put pressure to avoid any prosecution they have comited the worse possible mistake. This would be discriminatory and this would hamper the position of all these female troopers doing their job properly.

This is an opinion only, of course. Thanks to everyone else as I have seen some very interesting points.

Mo

perardua 05-04-2010 11:19 AM

Sense of humour failure? In the event described that did not happen, at all, ever, the opinion of most was that the use of the .50 for this purpose was a marvellous act of masculinity in the finest military tradition, whilst the total lack of precautions was an act of sheer stupidity that, rumour has it, resulted in a shotgun marriage. Good drills.

Seriously though, when you put large numbers of young men and women in the same place, without much to do other than work, these things are bound to happen. I would say that it is unrealistic to expect soldiers even (or especially) on operations to remain wholly chaste, especially given the increasing tour lengths they are being asked to do.

However, I disagree with court-martialling pregnant female soldiers, for a two reasons. Firstly, contraception is the responsibility of both people involved, and I would be surprised to see a male soldier court-martialled for impregnating a female soldier. Secondly, what happens when a female soldier becomes pregnant at home before deployment, or on R&R during a deplyment? She still becomes non-deployable and someone else still has to cover for her, yet no-one has suggested courts-martial, or that people should seek permission from their chain of command to start families. Some form of action should be taken to discourage it, and contraception should be (and is) freely available.

Anyway, if, as was suggested, someone is willing to get themselves pregnant to get out of a deployment, are they really the kind of person that you want there in the first place?

Mohoender 05-04-2010 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 21922)
Sense of humour failure?

Happens:D

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 21922)
Seriously though, when you put large numbers of young men and women in the same place, without much to do other than work, these things are bound to happen. I would say that it is unrealistic to expect soldiers even (or especially) on operations to remain wholly chaste, especially given the increasing tour lengths they are being asked to do.

Perfectly agree and that's why I would consider military regulation to be out of date.

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 21922)
However, I disagree with court-martialling pregnant female soldiers, for a two reasons. Firstly, contraception is the responsibility of both people involved, and I would be surprised to see a male soldier court-martialled for impregnating a female soldier. Secondly, what happens when a female soldier becomes pregnant at home before deployment, or on R&R during a deplyment? She still becomes non-deployable and someone else still has to cover for her, yet no-one has suggested courts-martial, or that people should seek permission from their chain of command to start families. Some form of action should be taken to discourage it, and contraception should be (and is) freely available.

Explanation failure this time on my side (LOL). I meant to court-martial both man and woman involved. I perfectly agree that both are equally involved. I thought I had been clear on that. It seems not.

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 21922)
Anyway, if, as was suggested, someone is willing to get themselves pregnant to get out of a deployment, are they really the kind of person that you want there in the first place?

I don't have an opinion on that. If it was to be proven such woman would be guilty of treachery and, then, I would be supportive of her being put in jail. Proving it is much more tricky.

Whatever, I love the idea of nuclear submarines in T2K with augmented crews

Los Angeles-class: 80 men, 47 women and ... 12 newborns.
Ohio-class: 108 men, 49 women and 25 newborns. Missile complement reduced to 8 in order to make room for a day care and two nurses.:rolleyes::p
Triomphant-class (France): 80 men, 31 women, 42 kids, 9 nurses (1 for every 5 kids, by law). Missile complement reduced to 0.;)

pmulcahy11b 05-04-2010 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 21922)
Sense of humour failure?

Failed his sense-of-humor savings throw?

I've only been in one unit when I was in the Army where there were both men and women -- G3 at 2ID HQ. Flirting is constant, but usually innocent. After hours is different, but most troops were professional enough not to do something too stupid -- no one wants to be forced into a marriage and have more of a conscience than to just abandon their kids. Yes, there were plenty of romances -- I had one of my own -- but abject stupidity or lack of common sense isn't as common as you might think. It might be the unit involved -- you don't end up at division HQ by chance, you're selected, and you can't apply for it. But in my experience, everyone isn't constantly screwing everyone (except maybe career-wise sometimes).

perardua 05-04-2010 02:47 PM

I agree, it's not something that is common. The entirely anecdotal example I gave is the only case I ever heard of where it got that far, and certainly it's not something that happens much in the UK (apart from with the ubiquitous station bike, if you're that way inclined) or while deployed. Certainly within units you rarely get more than flirting. In fact, I think that inter-unit, service or (as in this case) international flings are more common in these situations, a bit of the old "what goes on tour stays on tour".


However, my point (which I made badly) was that it's unrealistic to think it won't happen. Interestingly, part of the brief on arrival in Afghanistan was being told that STDs are increasingly a problem around Kandahar Airfield, mainly due to people being stupid on R&R, but increasingly due to bored troops getting some while on tour.

Mohoender 05-04-2010 06:51 PM

What Paul's said seems obvious to me. And I agree with Perardua's point as well. Then, my point is that even if it has to happen, you have to react agaisnt it with some strength nonetheless.

Funny how circumstances can make you act in a very different manner.

As a civilian I would tend to let go.;)

If I was in the military within real life I would tend to punish this mildly.:spanka:

If we were playing a T2K game and the situation would occur in my group, I would probably abandon the woman to herself and shot down the man responsible for it.:crossbone:sagrin:

waiting4something 05-04-2010 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mohoender (Post 21923)
Happens:D



Perfectly agree and that's why I would consider military regulation to be out of date.



Explanation failure this time on my side (LOL). I meant to court-martial both man and woman involved. I perfectly agree that both are equally involved. I thought I had been clear on that. It seems not.



I don't have an opinion on that. If it was to be proven such woman would be guilty of treachery and, then, I would be supportive of her being put in jail. Proving it is much more tricky.

Whatever, I love the idea of nuclear submarines in T2K with augmented crews

Los Angeles-class: 80 men, 47 women and ... 12 newborns.
Ohio-class: 108 men, 49 women and 25 newborns. Missile complement reduced to 8 in order to make room for a day care and two nurses.:rolleyes::p
Triomphant-class (France): 80 men, 31 women, 42 kids, 9 nurses (1 for every 5 kids, by law). Missile complement reduced to 0.;)

Whoah, that like 2 dudes for every chick. I bet those submarines have a lot of dudes doubling up on a chick.:D Lots of 3 somes going on aboard.:p I forgot how you say that in French. For this reason I believe that submarines should be crewed by women with a 2 to 1 ratio over guys.;) I not sure but, doesn't the French Foreign Legion forbid it's troopers for the first few years from getting married?

Mohoender 05-05-2010 01:26 AM

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Originally Posted by waiting4something (Post 21945)
I not sure but, doesn't the French Foreign Legion forbid it's troopers for the first few years from getting married?

I don't know. Anyway the foreign legion doesn't obey regular military rules. This is due to the fact that anyone enlisting in it (including Frenchmen) have to drop any citizenship. Legionnaire belong to the Legion and to the Legion only.

Fusilier 05-05-2010 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Mohoender (Post 21960)
Legionnaire belong to the Legion and to the Legion only.

Is there any hard numbers on peacetime desertion in the FL?

I'm under the impression its quite high compared to other units. A few years ago the FL were over and after talking to them they made it seem like your life is total shit once you join - that you belong 100% to the legion with no time for yourself.

Curiously enough, before their unit left it was reported that 3 of them deserted, obviously choosing to disappear into Canada's bigger cities rather than stick out their contract and go for legal immigration later. I always wondered if it was the same guys I talked to.

Anyways, just wondering, since none of the ones I met seemed to like it.

Mohoender 05-05-2010 08:57 PM

No clue about that

What I can say is that people joining today have changed. An increasing number of them join because they were unemployed and these often leave quickly.

What you describe (no time for themselves), seem to correspond to the training time. From what I know, nowadays, more people leave before the end of this training period (which is quite long). However, once they fully jojn, I don't think there is that much desertion.

pmulcahy11b 05-05-2010 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Mohoender (Post 22015)
What I can say is that people joining today have changed. An increasing number of them join because they were unemployed and these often leave quickly.

Isn't there a minimum term of service (assuming you don't wash out)?

Mohoender 05-05-2010 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by pmulcahy11b (Post 22020)
Isn't there a minimum term of service (assuming you don't wash out)?

Yes but there is a fairly long training period before full incorporation. Selection time is about 2 weeks. Then, you sign a 5 years contract. This is followed by 3 months of training. Of course, officialy, you are already fully part of the legion but, for real, you are not considered a legionnaire before the end of that period.

Still the level of desertion is around 5%. Most of it during the first 6 months. All of it during peace time. Almost all deserters are from EU and Gaulois (French). Usual condamnation is 3 months of prison with no time effectively done in jail.

Graebarde 05-08-2010 06:12 PM

1. IF the female can pass the qualifications I agree it should be open to them if they choose. There needs to be ONE standard of performance however, not one for men and one for women. Make it or fail.. one and all. I know many female 'warriors' that would put the average male 'warrior' to shame in 90% of the task. (I was married to one for 17 years)

2. IF a female gets pregnant, she is non-deployable. SOME get that way so they don't have to 'perform their duties'. I'm old and crass.. if they are non-deployable and have a good service record, it's one thing.. medical reassignment. IF on the other hand they are bricks before, then seperation from service. How many do not have someone to take care of the child? Same story.. Yeah like I said, I'm a old crass fart.

3. Male chauvanism gets in the way of 'prgress'. It also makes for dangerous situations in combat. There is a ingrained thought I think that males will tend to be protective of the female at their own risk. And there are females that take advantage of that same thinking. I served with females... some great 'warriors' many fell into the latter... The bottom line is WHY people join the armed forces.. usually for the WRONG reasons... 'gee I didn't join to go to war, I joined for college, or the paycheck, or what ever lame reason'

I shall now step off the soap box.. and thank the makers that I am not in the service now... and hope the MEN can handle it.

Webstral 05-08-2010 10:40 PM

It's a thorny issue. Mixing men and women causes problems wherever you do it. Sting said it best: "There is no political solution/for our troubled evolution." ("Spirits in the Material World") Substitute policy or administrative for political, and you have something to apply to the military. Men and women can have fraternal relationships, but men and women in their breeding prime (especially men) want love and sex--not necessarily in that order of priority. Ignoring this unavoidable fact is just immature. Given our oddly puritanical attitudes towards sex, it's not surprising that the US military is struggling with integrating men and women in a fashion that is fair, impartial, and workable.

I'll be honest: I struggled with the mixing when I was MI. The combat engineers and the infantry are just easier in that way. Fortunately for me, I don't flirt well, and I know it. I kept female soldiers at arm's length because I don't dance well enough to manage anything else. While I daresay that many male soldiers have my attitude, at least as many are eager to find themselves in the company of female soldiers for all the wrong reasons. I won't repeat the things I heard at an EO seminar; young soldiers are looking to get some.

It's not all one-sided, either. In my various XO positions for MI AIT companies at Huachuca, I was constantly in the company of young female soldiers. The command team (the commander, the first sergeant, and I) had a runner assigned to us whenever snowbirds, blackbirds, or light duty types were available. The runner occupied a desk in my office, which was between the CO's and 1SG's offices. Many's the day I walked into my office and got a "Hi, sir..." greeting that told me I needed to be out and about all day.

After PT one day, I discovered that I didn't have enough time to drive home and shower before an early appointment. I kept a spare set of BDUs in my trunk for just such an occasion. I showered in the seldom-used VIP shower in the barracks. The private assigned to clean that area came in and struck up a conversation with me through the shower door. She was one of the "Hi, sir..." types. She ignored hints that I was just about done with my shower. She did not leave when I shut off the shower and dried off. I told her I was going to have to get out of the shower and get dressed now. She said, "That's okay, sir."

I solved the problem by telling her to find the senior drill sergeant right away. There was a pause, then she left. When the senior drill sergeant arrived, I told him that under no [expletive deleted] circumstances were any of the trainees to enter the VIP shower while anyone was in there. He gave me a three-bags-full. I think he understood.

While it may be true that fraternization represents a lack of discipline, asking for monastic discipline on top of combat discipline may be more than one can ask. We don't want choir boys in the Army, and we don't recruit monks. We want killers. For better for for worse, the kinds of men who sign up to kill people against whom they have no particular gripe want to [expletive deleted] women. If government-sponsored brothels were available, then I'd say the Army would have a case against fraternizing in the field. In lieu of providing authorized outlets, the Army needs to grow up and accept that its killers never signed on for celibacy. Men and women under stress are going to have sex just as surely as a bullet fired in the air will come down someplace.

If I were in charge, I'd set up brothels that were under strict military control and issue ration cards or some other rationing system for access. Then we'd have an argument that male and female soldiers should not be finding solace in each others' arms.

Webstral

pmulcahy11b 05-09-2010 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Webstral (Post 22137)
Fortunately for me, I don't flirt well, and I know it. I kept female soldiers at arm's length because I don't dance well enough to manage anything else. Webstral

I struggled with that one my whole life. After my nervous breakdown, I just gave up on the whole idea, and pretty much now, I'm too old to even give the idea of romance a thought any more. (Except when I watch romantic movies -- my guilty pleasure.) Romances have always been tough for me to start, impossible to maintain, and usually started almost by accident.

My best friend, however, is female; her name's Gladys. We met in college and have known each other since. We've nursed each other through tough classes, bad family lives, busted romances, and worse -- and better (I was there through her first pregnancy, after her husband left her when he found out she was pregnant. If you ever get a chance to be in the delivery room, take it). We never thought of each other romantically in the least -- it's almost like we were long lost brother and sister. So it doesn't always have to be either romantic or platonic.

Mohoender 05-09-2010 03:40 AM

A few tricks

1) Need to be polite (not servile). Keep learning: you'll never stop. Here are basic rules.
- If you wear a hat, always take it off when speaking to a woman.
- Always let them go first when you go through a door in a place you know. However, in a place you don't know (restaurants for exemple), you enter first. Most people have forgotten about that rule but the explanation is simple. You don't know who might be behind the door and you have to protect her. You might have to explain it to her but trust she will appreciate.;)
- When climbing a stair you let her go first. You are polite and get the best view.:D
- When going down a stair (especially dangerous ones), you always go first (so you can catch her if she goes down). After all you are her charming prince. (again you might have to explain it)
- Hold the door of your car (increasingly hard with remotes) and be careful not to close the door on her leg.
- Listen to what she says and I mean listen.:rolleyes:
- If you cross another woman and look at her (you look at the gorgeous and hideous ones not matter how much you try it), don't deny it. Of course when you look at that woman, just don't do it too obviously (except if she is of hideous type). Anyway, your girl friend look at other man going by (You like nice boops, they love nice asses). Then, if you are caught, tell your mate than that woman passing by was nice looking but that she is ten times more gorgeous.
- Help her sit down (it's tricky) when going to a restaurant (and why not at home)
- Don't sit down at a dining table unless they are seated. If you are seated don't forget to stand up.
- If you are invited and the hot meal is already in your plate, don't wait to eat (that's an insult to the cook). Widely forgotten, therefore, make sure it doesn't hurt anyones feeling.
- To salute her leave the initiative. Some will shake your hand as a man others wont.
- Handkiss is still working but do it in a less formal way (with some sense of humor)
- If you offer her red roses, it has to be an uneaven number unless married (1-3-5-7-9...). Heaven numbers brutally means you want to fuck her. Usually she does too but better to be less aggressive.
(I'm sure I'm forgetting a lot of rules). Rules of politeness works especially well with American women.
2) Don't ever share the bill, always propose to pay but don't forget to let her do it from time to time.
3) Don't offer them gifts and flowers all the time (needless) but don't forget to do it from time to time. For my part, I often forget my wife's birthday (oops).
4) If you know how to cook, you have done half the road. On that matter women and men are the same. :)
5) Anyway, unlike what most men think, men don't hunt women, it's the other way around. However, don't ever let them know you understood it (unless you are married and your wife has a well developped sense of humor). There is no need to flirt at all, in fact. Just be present and kind, they will hunt you if you please them. That also explains the trick with the red roses.
6) Compliment them and I mean compliment them. Don't even hesitate to overdo. She'll know you are facking it but it works nonetheless. If she resist and tells you you are an hypocrit, push it forward.
7) From time to time, go shopping with her or you'll never be able to surprise her. I know its painful but there is no need to do it each time and you can put some limits.

And to those who think this is OT, it is not. We are talking military matters all day and women are exactly like the stronghold you want to take. That's why military strategist and politicians have often been successful with women.

I'm married, never cheated on my wife, but I can't help it. I still find women (most of them) to be the most beautiful thing in life.;):) As an Iranian friend told me once as he was looking at a girl with beautiful legs and short skirts: That girls is gorgeous, praise god that she is willing to share it with us.

Mohoender 05-09-2010 03:43 AM

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Originally Posted by pmulcahy11b (Post 22145)

My best friend, however, is female; her name's Gladys. We met in college and have known each other since. We've nursed each other through tough classes, bad family lives, busted romances, and worse -- and better (I was there through her first pregnancy, after her husband left her when he found out she was pregnant. If you ever get a chance to be in the delivery room, take it). We never thought of each other romantically in the least -- it's almost like we were long lost brother and sister. So it doesn't always have to be either romantic or platonic.

I'm almost 40, I have been married with my wife for 5 years now and we have dated for 7 years. The tricky part is that we have known each other for 35 years. Took us almost 30 years to move forward. There still is hope for you, then.:)

Nowhere Man 1966 05-09-2010 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Graebarde (Post 22134)
1. IF the female can pass the qualifications I agree it should be open to them if they choose. There needs to be ONE standard of performance however, not one for men and one for women. Make it or fail.. one and all. I know many female 'warriors' that would put the average male 'warrior' to shame in 90% of the task. (I was married to one for 17 years)

2. IF a female gets pregnant, she is non-deployable. SOME get that way so they don't have to 'perform their duties'. I'm old and crass.. if they are non-deployable and have a good service record, it's one thing.. medical reassignment. IF on the other hand they are bricks before, then seperation from service. How many do not have someone to take care of the child? Same story.. Yeah like I said, I'm a old crass fart.

3. Male chauvanism gets in the way of 'prgress'. It also makes for dangerous situations in combat. There is a ingrained thought I think that males will tend to be protective of the female at their own risk. And there are females that take advantage of that same thinking. I served with females... some great 'warriors' many fell into the latter... The bottom line is WHY people join the armed forces.. usually for the WRONG reasons... 'gee I didn't join to go to war, I joined for college, or the paycheck, or what ever lame reason'

I shall now step off the soap box.. and thank the makers that I am not in the service now... and hope the MEN can handle it.

I do agree with you where there should be one standard. I'm squeamish about women serving aboard subs in a coed manner. Webstral has a point too where Sting of the Police (at that time) pointed out about the problems of human nature. If I may bring about another musical group example, I would use the song from The Partridge Family where "I am willing to meet you halfway." Maybe we need to test a sub or two with all female crews and see how they perform and take it from there. I'm normally against experimentation in the military but I think we can spare a boat or two and just see what happens.

Chuck

pmulcahy11b 05-09-2010 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Nowhere Man 1966 (Post 22155)
I do agree with you where there should be one standard. I'm squeamish about women serving aboard subs in a coed manner. Webstral has a point too where Sting of the Police (at that time) pointed out about the problems of human nature. If I may bring about another musical group example, I would use the song from The Partridge Family where "I am willing to meet you halfway." Maybe we need to test a sub or two with all female crews and see how they perform and take it from there. I'm normally against experimentation in the military but I think we can spare a boat or two and just see what happens.

Chuck

I agree with you that there should be one standard, but I also think that coed units are a place where men and women, especially young men and women, need to grow up about their professional relationships with each other. That kind of immature attitude can happen in coed units. To a large extent, curbing this attitude is also a leadership problem. Men and women can work together professionally --I've seen it happen.

waiting4something 05-10-2010 07:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Webstral (Post 22137)
It's a thorny issue. Mixing men and women causes problems wherever you do it. Sting said it best: "There is no political solution/for our troubled evolution." ("Spirits in the Material World") Substitute policy or administrative for political, and you have something to apply to the military. Men and women can have fraternal relationships, but men and women in their breeding prime (especially men) want love and sex--not necessarily in that order of priority. Ignoring this unavoidable fact is just immature. Given our oddly puritanical attitudes towards sex, it's not surprising that the US military is struggling with integrating men and women in a fashion that is fair, impartial, and workable.

I'll be honest: I struggled with the mixing when I was MI. The combat engineers and the infantry are just easier in that way. Fortunately for me, I don't flirt well, and I know it. I kept female soldiers at arm's length because I don't dance well enough to manage anything else. While I daresay that many male soldiers have my attitude, at least as many are eager to find themselves in the company of female soldiers for all the wrong reasons. I won't repeat the things I heard at an EO seminar; young soldiers are looking to get some.

It's not all one-sided, either. In my various XO positions for MI AIT companies at Huachuca, I was constantly in the company of young female soldiers. The command team (the commander, the first sergeant, and I) had a runner assigned to us whenever snowbirds, blackbirds, or light duty types were available. The runner occupied a desk in my office, which was between the CO's and 1SG's offices. Many's the day I walked into my office and got a "Hi, sir..." greeting that told me I needed to be out and about all day.

After PT one day, I discovered that I didn't have enough time to drive home and shower before an early appointment. I kept a spare set of BDUs in my trunk for just such an occasion. I showered in the seldom-used VIP shower in the barracks. The private assigned to clean that area came in and struck up a conversation with me through the shower door. She was one of the "Hi, sir..." types. She ignored hints that I was just about done with my shower. She did not leave when I shut off the shower and dried off. I told her I was going to have to get out of the shower and get dressed now. She said, "That's okay, sir."

I solved the problem by telling her to find the senior drill sergeant right away. There was a pause, then she left. When the senior drill sergeant arrived, I told him that under no [expletive deleted] circumstances were any of the trainees to enter the VIP shower while anyone was in there. He gave me a three-bags-full. I think he understood.

While it may be true that fraternization represents a lack of discipline, asking for monastic discipline on top of combat discipline may be more than one can ask. We don't want choir boys in the Army, and we don't recruit monks. We want killers. For better for for worse, the kinds of men who sign up to kill people against whom they have no particular gripe want to [expletive deleted] women. If government-sponsored brothels were available, then I'd say the Army would have a case against fraternizing in the field. In lieu of providing authorized outlets, the Army needs to grow up and accept that its killers never signed on for celibacy. Men and women under stress are going to have sex just as surely as a bullet fired in the air will come down someplace.

If I were in charge, I'd set up brothels that were under strict military control and issue ration cards or some other rationing system for access. Then we'd have an argument that male and female soldiers should not be finding solace in each others' arms.

Webstral

Now this is the kind of guy we need in charge! But, he has common sense, so he could never become a General.:p Really you hit the nail on the head.:smileysho

pmulcahy11b 05-10-2010 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Webstral (Post 22137)
...We want killers...

Webstral

I probably just misunderstood your phrasing here, but I didn't and don't want someone next to me who wants to kill. I made a pointed effort to get two such people out of my squad, people I believe actually wanted to go to war and kill someone. I want someone who is capable of killing, but still has his essential humanity intact. People who actually want to kill shouldn't be allowed to even touch a weapon.

Webstral 05-10-2010 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by pmulcahy11b (Post 22196)
I probably just misunderstood your phrasing here, but I didn't and don't want someone next to me who wants to kill. I made a pointed effort to get two such people out of my squad, people I believe actually wanted to go to war and kill someone. I want someone who is capable of killing, but still has his essential humanity intact. People who actually want to kill shouldn't be allowed to even touch a weapon.

I agree that in an ideal world the military would be full of folks who would feel suitably reluctant to press the [metaphorical] trigger and suitably remorseful afterwards. The combat arms in particular present us with rather a Catch-22. Rifleman, tankers, cannon crew, etc. have to be willing to kill and highly motivated to train to that end without falling victim to the not-always-covertly bloodthirsty combat arms subculture. It's a tightrope act that not everyone can manage. If a rifleman must fall off the rope, we'd rather he fall on the side with too much aggression than the side with too little. Beggars can't be choosers; an Army staffed by volunteers and which offers no real incentives to be in the infantry other than membership in the brotherhood of killers is going to find itself with a fair number of men looking to take lives. As for the rest of us, if we were really opposed to taking life, we'd be able to find ourselves positions in the AG or JAG.

Rene Belloq (Raiders of the Lost Ark) tells Dr. Jones: "[We] are not so different as you pretend. I am but a shadowy reflection of you. It would only take a nudge to push you out of the light."

Webstral

perardua 05-10-2010 03:45 PM

I was always a fan of what my instructors used to tell us they were trying to do, which is to give people the ability to 'flip a switch' in their heads and go from being the bloke in the pub to being able to kill, and back again. The whole 'warrior culture' thing has always vaguely unsettled me when I've encountered it, though it seems to be quite a big part of the US military (at least in my experience). But then, real and perceived differences in military culture between nations could probably be a whole other (quite interesting) thread.

Anyway, back to the topic in hand: Whilst fraternising within a unit is frowned on, and rightfully so, I think there has to continue to be an acceptance that inter-unit relationships, short and long term, will happen, and that trying to stop them is a bad idea. This is especially true on large bases which are effectively towns in their own right, and where, especially for the younger troops, their main social life is with each other.

Webstral 05-10-2010 03:59 PM

A splendid book called The Kinder, Gentler Military by Stephanie Gutmann explores the idea of a gender-neutral (female friendly) military and asks whether such a military can be as effective as the military it replaces. The author admits that she started the project with the intent of exposing the military as just another boys' club that needed to be forced to mend its degenerate ways. Partway through her research, she became convinced that the military is a separate subculture that needs to be preserved so it can do its job and so the civilian population can remain blissfully unexposed to the brutality of war. Women who want to join the world of the military, Gutmann insists, need to adapt to the military way of business rather than demanding that the military adapt to the woman's way of doing things. She also acknowledges that the majority of women she interviewed believed this, and that the real problem comes from female members of Congress who haven't served but think they know best.

Gutmann recommends exactly what so many have said in this thread already: a single performance standard needs be set for an MOS. Meet the standard, male or female, and you're in. Fail to meet the standard, male or female, and you must find a different MOS. While I'm still not thrilled about the idea of women in the infantry, I'd trade an objective standard for having a few women around.

Of course, making it tougher to be in the combat arms (with objective, gender-neutral standards) isn't going to increase the ranks of the combat arms any more than making it tougher to be a teacher is going to bring more teachers into the profession. The infantry in particular need incentives built in. New recruits should be competing for a available infantry slots, and the infantry should have the option of refusing entry to at least a third of the recruits who meet the general standards to be soldiers. There are two routes to increasing incentives, and both should be tried. The first is to offer more pay and better housing for the infantry. There should be an infantry bonus amounting to at least 20% of base pay for anyone in the 11 series. I'd be open to arguments that the light infantry should receive an even greater bonus than the mech guys. I'd also be open to arguments that the infantry should receive more than 20%. Housing for the infantry should be conspicuously superior, such that junior enlisted soldiers in the CS and CSS should ask themselves how badly they want to be in the rear with the gear. The other advantage should be conspicuiously superior privileges and official respect. The infantry go to the head of the line. The infantry get more days off, and so forth. With a greater pool of applicants, the infantry can afford to get rid of the pogues, train harder (you don't like the pace? There's a slot in the quartermaster unit with your name on it!), and hold itself to even higher standards. THEN we could bring in women, because for every chucklehead unable to control his male impulses in the field, there'd be a line of eager replacements.

As for the other combat arms, I'm on the fence about a modest bonus. In the current climate, the tankers and cannon cockers aren't fighting the same war as the riflemen. However, if HIC breaks out someplace, the gun and fighting vehicle crews will fnd their lives in much greater peril. Since you go to war with the Army you've been training for the past five years, I suppose some sort of accomodation for the other combat arms is in order. Again, if one has objective standards and many more applicants than openings, it becomes more feasible to bring in the women and demand celibacy from everyone.

(I'm still in favor of government-run brothels. My wife assures me that the women would need to frequent them, too.)

Webstral

perardua 05-10-2010 04:19 PM

While I am all for the infantry having more official recognition, I am not sure measures quite as drastic as those you propose would work. The first thing that springs to mind is that in modern operations, everyone is a target. When you have supply convoys getting hit frequently, and when you're sending non-infantry personnel (medics, interpreters, etc) on the same patrols as their infantry counterparts, but without the benefits, then the idea of incentivising people to join the infantry loses some of its legitimacy.

Furthermore, deliberately creating second class citizens within the military just seems like a bad idea. I know the infantry are what wins wars, but so do suppliers, engineers, mechanics, medics and all the other personnel that enable them to do their jobs. You make it sound like people in those trades have less value than infantrymen, and that is simply not true.

As an aside, does the US Army have different fitness standards for combat arms as compared to CSS types? I know the British Army Combat Fitness Test has different weight and distance standards for different arms, and the RAF Regiment has the Regiment Operational Fitness Assessment to help set it apart from the rest of the RAF.

pmulcahy11b 05-10-2010 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 22214)
As an aside, does the US Army have different fitness standards for combat arms as compared to CSS types? I know the British Army Combat Fitness Test has different weight and distance standards for different arms, and the RAF Regiment has the Regiment Operational Fitness Assessment to help set it apart from the rest of the RAF.

Technically no, but everyone in the Army (when I was in) knew that in Combat Arms units, you were going to be graded on each pushup and situp repetition was going to be graded more harshly. (The 2-mile run time doesn't allow for harder grading -- the time is the time.) However, standards go down as you get older, and women have lower standards for PT then men.

When I went to the 82nd Airborne, we were expected to score 20% higher than the book standards, plus there was a pullup event added to the PT test.

Eddie 05-10-2010 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by pmulcahy11b (Post 22223)
Technically no, but everyone in the Army (when I was in) knew that in Combat Arms units, you were going to be graded on each pushup and situp repetition was going to be graded more harshly. (The 2-mile run time doesn't allow for harder grading -- the time is the time.) However, standards go down as you get older, and women have lower standards for PT then men.

When I went to the 82nd Airborne, we were expected to score 20% higher than the book standards, plus there was a pullup event added to the PT test.

That comes from the 82nd's Ranger Envy. Ranger Standards used to be 80% in each event in the 17-21 year old age range plus 6 pull ups. Then that changed when the age standards got revamped in '99-'00. Now it's your age group.

The Army Standard is 60% per category. Infantry standard is 70%. Nothing really happens to you if you don't make it except maybe a flag for no favorable action and getting put on remedial PT.

About three years ago RTB changed their PT standards and renamed the APFT the Ranger Phsycial Fitness Test. Now the RPFT is 80% for push-ups and sit-ups in the 17-21 year category, a 5 mile run in 40 minutes substituted for the 2-mile, and the pull-ups. The rest of the Army still does the APFT.

Webstral 05-10-2010 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 22214)
Furthermore, deliberately creating second class citizens within the military just seems like a bad idea.

A dual-class system already exists in the military—any military. The officers are the first class citizens, and the enlisted troops are the second class citizens. Pay and privileges are allocated accordingly. Soldiers (and seamen, airmen, and Marines) are accustomed to living and operating in a system in which service members are not all peers and in which some receive much better treatment than others for the execution of certain duties. There also exists a multiple-standard system in which SO operates under substantially different rules than the line units. The US Army already recognizes the differences between troops when offering re-enlistment bonuses; Special Forces gets $150,000. The truckers and MI and heavy engineers aren’t getting this money.

Everyone may be a target, but it's still the infantry who are doing more than their share of the dying. The combat support guys may be exposed to combat, but the combat arms guys are the ones who are assigned to prosecute it. Truckers on the highways are exposed to ambushes and IEDs. Riflemen purposefully engaged in urban combat are exposed to an entirely different order of threat.

I take your point about having medics and interpreters on patrols, but I'm not convinced the solution is to avoid giving incentives altogether. A case can be made for recognizing that the rifle platoon medic deserves the same incentives as the riflemen under his care. I'm not going to address incentives for interpreters, very few of whom in Iraq are American servicemen.

As for second class, there's a difference between second class by inherent quality and second class by choice. The infantry ain't rocket science. Those who succeed and those who don't principally are divided by motivation, not by native intelligence. Traditionally, the infantry makes due with the folks who are left over after the more technical services take their pick. I wouldn't say that the US infantry is filled with rocks, but too many are doofuses who should be doing something else. By the same token, MI is full of folks who would be good infantry except for the fact that they can't imagine why they'd put up with that [expletive deleted] for the exact same pay and privileges. Who can blame them?

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Originally Posted by perardua (Post 22214)
I know the infantry are what wins wars, but so do suppliers, engineers, mechanics, medics and all the other personnel that enable them to do their jobs. You make it sound like people in those trades have less value than infantrymen, and that is simply not true.

All jobs may contribute to victory, but not all jobs are equal just because they contribute. As an analogy, I'll point to civil service. A municipality (with minimal corruption) does not create jobs that do nothing. Every paid position contributes to keeping the municipality running. Not every position merits equal pay. Try paying the cops the same as you pay a file clerk for a given level of experience, and you will find yourself with a very poor pool of candidates for the police department. All jobs may contribute, but not every job is equally critical. Not all jobs pose equal risk to life and limb.


Webstral

Eddie 05-11-2010 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Webstral (Post 22228)
Everyone may be a target, but it's still the infantry who are doing more than their share of the dying.

This is the only part I'll nitpick on. In Iraq and until recently, Afghanistan, the majority of engagements have been on non-Combat Arms MOSs because they present the softer target. Running a historical tally, you're correct though.

We've had our differences in the past Webstral, but as an Infantryman...when are you running for Congress? You got my wife's vote when you said more than 20%.

perardua 05-11-2010 06:15 AM

Good points. I don't really have a problem with retention/recruitment bonuses for specific trades (the RAF Regiment, my own branch of service, has been throwing them out pretty frequently, with the result that it was, last time I checked, I overmanned. Which is nice), but what I disagree with is the concept of infantry (or whatever trade takes your fancy) getting more privileges, better housing, more time off, etc than any other enlisted personnel. For officers, that's the way it's always been, and there is a general acceptance that that's how things work. I just think that a lot of skilled non-combat arms tradesmen will not take kindly to that suddenly becoming applied to their own place in the military, as compared to infantry, and may even start wondering if the civilian world is a better place to find employment.

For myself, and most of my colleagues, we would have welcomed more pay and better housing. However, we didn't need it to make us stay in, or to attract the best recruits. We already felt we were better than those around us who hadn't been through the same training that we had, and who worked 9-5 jobs for the most part. I think that a lot of units create their own sense of elitism, and that it does work as a means of attracting and retaining the right kind of recruits.

Of course, the caveat to all of this is that I have no indepth knowledge of how the US Army works, or what it's culture is like. I'm coming at this from the standpoint of not having seen a lack of quality amongst infantry, certainly not to the extent you suggest. But then, my experience is different to yours.

As an aside, the British Army uses a personal fitness test similar to that of the US Army (press-ups, sit-ups and a 1.5 mile run in PT kit) plus a Combat Fitness Test which is 6-8 miles as a squad with CEMO, the exact time, distance and weights carried varying with arm. It's always been my experience that regardless of what your fitness test standard actually is, only doing the minimum gets you in lots of trouble.

The RAF Regiment uses the biannual RAF Fitness Test, which is press-ups, sit-ups and a bleep test. They also add the annual ROFA, a 2 day event which consists of a CEMO march similar to the Army Infantry CFT, a speed march in CEFO, a dummy drag, a sprint carrying two jerry cans, and a bergen lift onto the back of a vehicle. They've been experimenting with modifying it, and we recently trialled the addition of another bleep test (higher standard required than the normal RAF one and no reductions for age), a swim test, pull-ups, and a fire and movement lane consisting of alternate sprinting and crawling for a set distance. The next year we went back to the old one, though I hear the improved version is still being worked on. Regardless, I always used to like the CEMO march. 8 miles was almost the exact distance from the Squadron buildings to the CS chamber, and thus it was always used as an opportunity to get our annual NBC testing in after the march....

pmulcahy11b 05-11-2010 06:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Webstral (Post 22228)
As for second class, there's a difference between second class by inherent quality and second class by choice. The infantry ain't rocket science. Those who succeed and those who don't principally are divided by motivation, not by native intelligence. Traditionally, the infantry makes due with the folks who are left over after the more technical services take their pick. I wouldn't say that the US infantry is filled with rocks, but too many are doofuses who should be doing something else.

Webstral

Web, really, the days when infantrymen were a bunch of soldiers without the talent to do anything else were already gone by the time I enlisted -- as an infantryman in the National Guard -- in 1983. Using tactics takes brains, using modern infantry equipment takes brains, keeping a platoon or even a squad in working order logistically takes brains, knowing the weak points on enemy armor takes brains, etc, etc, etc. Being infantry requires just as much head work as any other MOS -- but not everyone can do it. I don't consider myself a doofus -- I have a BA in History with a respectable 3.07 GPA at graduation and an IQ of 145 plus or minus 5. I didn't know any stupid fellow infantrymen -- foolish maybe, but not flat out stupid. The idea of the "dumb grunt" is a misconception that in reality went away a long time ago.

Adm.Lee 05-11-2010 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by pmulcahy11b (Post 22239)
Web, really, the days when infantrymen were a bunch of soldiers without the talent to do anything else were already gone by the time I enlisted -- as an infantryman in the National Guard -- in 1983. ... The idea of the "dumb grunt" is a misconception that in reality went away a long time ago.

I've read of studies dating back to WW2 that said that lower IQ infantrymen tended to become casualties much more quickly than smarter ones, and that smarter infantrymen were much more combat-effective. The army adjusted several policies after that.

Webstral 05-12-2010 12:23 PM

Paul, I want to give you the proper, well-considered response that you deserve. However, I have class tonight (or at least I'll be in the classroom), so last night and today are shot for anything but schoolwork. Yes, like so many others I find myself finishing my work at the eleventh hour. I don't want you to think I'm ignoring you.

Webstral

P.S. The Eleventh Hour would be a good name for a pub or a tax services business, don't you think? Or perhaps for putting together last-minute weddings with expanded-middle wedding gowns?

Graebarde 05-12-2010 11:06 PM

Cira 1973, Ft Eustis (Even Uncle Sam Thinks It Sucks) VA.
I was an instructor at the Transportation School. I taught a 24-hour block of instruction to Movement Specialist and the SAME block to Stevedores. I had been at the school for about a year, having been medically reclassified from the Infantry where I had served for the better part of five years, with two tours under my belt. Any ways, this block was a MUST PASS to continue the course, or you were recycled back. I had this kid come in one class and failed the test. This was NOT all that uncommon, perhaps 2-3 per class did. So he's back in about two weeks again. He failed the SECOND time.. same OPEN BOOK test (it was documentation BTW). So the reclassified him to Stevedores. (About the only MOS below them was Laborer IMNSHO) Long story short... he failed test three AND four.. so they are going to reclassify him AGAIN.. to the INFANTRY. I went to the NCOIC of the section, wearing my CIB and ribbons. I told the Master Sergeant to NOT reclassify the kid to the Infantry. He asked me WHY NOT? I flat told him it took BRAINS to stay alive and not get others killed... He just looked at me for a while and said.. "good point".. the kid was released as untrainable. I still feel that way..

Intelligence and common sense go a LONG way in the Infantry, even back in the day. I was in during the draft era and Volar.. In my platoon in AIT we had a PhD, and two with Masters degrees, as well as several Bachelors.. Our platoon was KICK ASS AND TAKE NAMES LATER if I do say so myself. We were tasked by the Battalion Commander as a TEST platoon.. while everyone carried a rifle and butt pack, our platoon carried TOE rucks, radios, M60s, LAWS, Grenades, and 700 rounds of ammo (inert, but weighs the same), as well as two canteens, and three days c-rats, extra socks, bedroll (blanket and shelterhalf in poncho).. we doubletimed everywhere we went. There were no slackers in the platoon.. we were different and our attitude showed it... we trained when everyone else was in the beer garden... They called us names, and we laughed at them.. HARD CORE!!!! We had people from all walks of life.. in all sorts of shape at first, even after they had been in basic (we filled from three BCT stations that I know of), but EVERYONE was in top shape by end of cycle.. We did our six mile road march in 45 minutes over the ridges.. NOBODY in the platoon dropped out while other platoons were falling like flies... and we had 80+ pounds MORE than they did to carry.. If someone was having troubles with a concept.. they were helped by their peers..

Now this is NOT to say all were happy campers, far from it, but we were the only platoon that had NO AWOLs that cycle, everyone was 80% plus on the PT test (which at the time was FIVE events culminating in a mile run... IN COMBAT BOOTS.. PT gear was T-shit, fatigue pants and combat boots, no running shoes and sweats need apply thank you very much.. You train how your going to fight... and I dont see anyone in tennies and shorts (except that kid in 'Stan in his pink boxers and flipflops LOL)

I know, times have changed, but I think we were taught and tested on more stuff in that time than they do now... ie. First Aid was almost to Life Saver standards today and that was EVERYONE. I was involved in a first aid class in the late 70's and appalled they didn't even address a sucking chest wound. Comms were simpler, but more indepth.. we had demolitions, live fire of LAWS, a week on the '60, fired MaDuce and bloopers, as well as the .45 and the 'trusty' M-16 which was just coming on line (took BCT with the M14).. intensive land navigation, yada yada yada.. and it was ALL tested.. you fail you recycle... And testing was in week SIX and you recycled back to week ONE.. something NOBODY wanted... Everyone in my platoon graduated.. Six of the platoon went on to OCS.. and some payed the ultimate price in the shithole called Nam.

Guess I got carried away.. sorry.. but I was an 11B and proud of it. And I was a volunteer RA, not a draftee. (Why would someone do that you ask.. hey, the INFANTRY to me is the ARMY.. the rest just support us.)

Grae

(getting extinguishers ready for the flames :D)

IT takes more than a warm body to make an Infantryman.


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