Thanks everyone
Julia is doing pretty well now. She's still in special care but she's doing pretty well. Minor setback last night when they had to put her feeding tube back in, but apparently thats pretty common. Basically she was just too tired to eat on her own. Heading back up to the hospital now to see how she's doing today.
For those who were asking, this is our second daughter - we also have Teri-Anne who is four. As a friend said to me yesterday - "Two daughters? Time to get a gun licence"