Anna,
This is frankly, the way to handle it. I applaud your comments. I guess the dividing line is..."Are you getting in the way of other people's fun"? If you are, then perhaps it is time to reevaluate one's own issues.
I was part of a Battletech group that had the social graces of a gaggle of pigs in a trough. After a while, it stopped being fun when I was the constant butt of the jokes. I said as much, it failed to stop, so, I picked up and left. Been much happier since. Lesson is, we are a big enough hobby to cater to everyone's tastes, if you are not finding your flavor of fun at one table, go to another, but for god's sake, don't make your fun the law of the land, so to speak.
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