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Originally Posted by Targan
I think as adults we all understand that relationships sometimes end badly and we expect our ex-partners to sometimes say hurtful things but using kids as emotional weapons - I'm sorry but I consider that to be skirting the edge of evil. No matter what one parent might think of the other parent it is just plain wrong for one parent to bad-mouth the other to their kids. Just. Plain. Wrong.
I feel bad for you Nate, I really do. I rarely get to see my daughter because of how my ex and her family feel about me so I understand some of how bad you must be hurting.
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I so sorry Targan.... this pain, i would never, ever wish this kind of hurt on anyone. i'm not going to be able to be the father I always wanted to be. i'm not going to be able to see my boys more than once a year because of this. my heart goes out to you. why do the courts that are suppose to ensure that we are all equal under the law... but women always get the upper hand. and we men get the short end of the deal. (there was a song titled "she got the gold mine and i got the shaft" that fits it... and its worse in the UK... fathers aren't given any rights. they're telling me that if anything happens to her, i won't be allowed to get my sons)